TEENAGE DAUGHTER STAYED OUT ALL NITE!!! HELP!! I NEED MATURE ANSWERS FROM RESPONSIBLE PARENTS. THANK YOU.?

MY DAUGHTER IS 16 HONOR STUDENT AN SHE HAS THIS IGNORANT I8 YEAR OLD GUY SHE'S DATING MY FAMILY DOES NOT APPROVE SHE STAY OUT ONE TIME BEFORE I WAS SO UPSET WITH HER I GRABBED HER AN TOLD HER DO NOT EVER INYOUR LIFE PULL THAT AGAIN WHILE IN MY HOME SHE DID IT AGAIN I CALLED HER ALL DAY AN ALL NIGHT SHE CALLS ME AN SAYS IT'S RAINING AN I AM NOT COMING HOME I SAID TO HER YOU BETTER GET HOME THIS WAS 9:00PM SHE NEVER ANSWERED ANYMORE OF MY CALLS OR MY FAMILES SO WHEN SHE CALLED ME I TOLD HER TO STAY WHERE SHE WAS SHE WAS MAD WITH ME LIKE I DID OR SAID SOMETHING WRONG TO HER I HAVE AN 11YEAR OLD LITTLE GIRL AN 14 YEAR OLD SON SHE'S NOT SETTING ANY POSITIVE ROLES BY HER BEGIN THE OLDEST GIRL AN I TOLD HER SHE WILL NOT BE DIRESPECTFUL TO OUR FAMILY. DO YOU THINK I WENT TO FAR? OR DID I DO WHAT WAS RIGHT SO I COULD TEACH HER A LESSON?I LOVE HER BUT IWANT HER TO KNOW YOU DO NOT GO AGAINST YOUR FAMILY FOR NO ONE ESPECIALLY A LOWW LIFE HE DO NOT GO TO SCHOOL AN HE LOOKS LIKE FROM HIS PIS MY DAUGHTER HAS OF HIM ON HER MY SPACE PAGE.HIS MOM DOES NOT CARE WHAT HE DOES.