Is it possible to stop being gay? Also, ladies are you wary of ex-gays?

I dunno. I have to disagree. I think you may be losing interest in men because you are not finding the right one(s) maybe, but I don't think that it is possible to just change ual orientations. ual orientation is like DNA. You are born with it and you can't change it. You might be going through a phase or you may just be realizing that you are . There could be many things that are going on and if I were you, I would talk to a professional to sort things out. It is a bad idea to do that all on your own. Good luck!